A few big holes

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Our pier work started yesterday.  Ever had a jackhammer in your house?  It was a new one for me. It’s kind of LOUD.

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This is a corner of the basement on the side that holds Darren’s office.  The other side holds our workout room.  This side has always been gross.  DSC_1885

Case in point.  I have dreams about this space.  But it’s at the bottom of our list.  A working kitchen and bathroom on the main floor are at the top.  The fireplace from the first picture is behind the tarp.  The tarp is there because they are about to break up the concrete floor in our house and dig into the dirt below.  The fireplace is 4 stories tall, and will take a small army of piers to support just it.

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 I was surprised how thin the concrete in the basement floor is.  2 inches and then dirt.  The concrete under the fireplace is thicker.  The worker was surprised how little rebar was in our floor.  I was afraid to ask how bad that was.

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I took his picture without asking.  Then said, “Now you will be on my blog.”   Too bad it’s blurry, it was going to be a great shot.  It was hard to get the workers to be still long enough to get a blog worthy picture :P.

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This is serious hard work.

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Next I stepped outside to check on the progress there.  These holes are deep enough to hide a grown man.  I thought the holes were empty.  So gave a little scream when a man popped up out of one.
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This photo gives a feeling for the size of this house and how much weight the piers are going to lift.  It’s a half story taller on the back side.DSC_1904 DSC_1903 DSC_1902

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There weren’t any workers on the back of the house, so the kids all wanted to get down in a hole.  I wasn’t sure I liked the idea.  But then I thought about how much this was costing us and thought, why not?  Live it up, lol.

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I love this picture of the brothers 🙂DSC_1917 DSC_1916

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Heather was next.

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She was like, “Oh gross–It’s DIRT!”  I’m not sure what she was expecting.

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A little reassurance from her Daddy, then she got over it.

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That’s my pretty girl!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Feeling Blessed and Free Baby Crochet Patterns

The readers here are amazing.  One of you sent my son a pair of shoes so I wouldn’t spend the money left in my clothing budget, even though the money was there.  She wanted me to get a head start on our 200 ways to save $100.   Another reader emailed to ask me what sizes the kids are because her friends are always looking for places to pass down clothes.  And our family worship group has taken turns bringing us dinner for the month of October after we found out our foundation needs help.  It’s more than we deserve.

Heidi and I crocheted a few baby hats over the weekend for the Women’s Clinic.  Thinking too much about myself and our drama is a pathway to depression.  So we decided to break the cycle and do something for someone else.  We used this free pattern:

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Hat picture belongs to www.AestheticNest.com

The hat worked up super fast.  We could make a hat in less than an hour all while visiting together and building our relationship.  My niece got in on the action too. There’s nothing as much fun as making something for a baby! And doing it with friends is even better.

And then I crocheted up this little peacoat for my new niece or nephew. By adapting what I learned from making the girl hat above I made a matching hat inspired by this one.  I also made a little tie onesie to go inside the jacket. It  is meant to help the mother feel the joy of the blessing that is coming in the midst of the overwhelm of daily life.  Sometimes at the beginning of a pregnancy it all feels surreal and can be overwhelming when there’s already a house full of children.  Holding something for the new baby helped me feel a connection to the new life.  And hearing the heartbeat helped a bunch too.  So even though the new baby isn’t due until May, we are giving the little package to the mother tonight.

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 I had so much fun with these projects (all from stash too–so no new money spent) that I started this sweater for Grant:

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I had gathered all the supplies one week at a time, using a 40% coupon for each skein of yarn and have had them for awhile.  I plan to make the brown part on the arms a lot shorter to match the length of ribbing on the rest of the sweater and am using YouTube videos to learn all the little parts of knitting (like how to cast on and SSK.)

Now that I see this list of projects, I see why my house is a wreak.  Forehead slap.

We have settled into a routine with dinner at a table all together and homework in the one room left with furniture in it.  Sometimes there are more stories and laughter than progress on homework, but it’s happiness to be spending time together as a family again. We are resting from projects and just living.  Next week we have 3 foundation companies coming out to give estimates.  Until then, we are finding a new normal in our space.

I’m starting to look forward to cooking again.  I gave myself a head start by putting a breakfast casserole in the slow cooker last night.   Darren said I could assemble a few of our lower cabinets if I wanted to put some of my dishes away on the main floor.  That sounds like a good plan to me :).  I’m gathering a list of crock-pot breakfast recipes and autumny foods that can be made without an oven. I’ll post on what turns out well.

 

The Other Side of Savings

Post interruption:  It’s hard to say something like this, but a tragedy struck our little private school this week. The visitation for one of my Freshman students is tonight and he will be buried tomorrow.  My heart breaks for his family and there is a hole in the heart of every person at the school.   Something like this puts things into perspective.  We feel entirely different about our foundation issues now.  It seems superficial in the scheme of things. We are holding each other as a family, thinking about what’s really important, and praying for those who are closest to this trauma.

Back to the scheduled post:

I appreciate all the supportive emails after yesterday’s post.  There are lots of awesome ideas in the comments there.

Some good friends also sent these ideas through private messages:

“Don’t forget the little stuff. I don’t know how your bills are but setting a timer for the shower, always making sure lights are out in rooms you aren’t in and things like that really help!”

“Do you have the HyVee Fuel saver card? I just signed up, and I was careful and bought store brands on sale or others at a good price that also had the fuel saver discount, and in two weeks, I have $1.01 off per gallon.

Also, I noticed they have gift cards that have fuel discounts, too. I know JCPenney is one of them. For $25 gift card you get 12c/gallon and for $50 you get back 25c/gallon. Then you find a coupon to go use your gift card.”

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But also many of you landed on the idea that savings alone can’t fix a big money problem. It’s true!

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There are things that could go on my list of 200 ways to save $100 that I don’t want to add.  Things like stopping ballet or violin lessons.  Not only would our kids be sad, but we would be affecting the income needs of other families. We’ve had to make decisions like that in the past, like with a sudden job loss.  But if I can find another way, I’d like to do that.

Then there are things like our internet connection.  We’ve already let our house phone go (we use Magic Jack) and have never had cable television.  But I earn my money through the internet.  So our quitting internet service would be like DH quitting his job so we wouldn’t have to buy the gas to get him there.  It just doesn’t  make sense.

There are other things we pay for that end up saving us money in the long run.  Things like a menu subscription :). Or a membership to a discount warehouse.  Or insurance.

If I stopped paying anything–the house, electricity, food etc. and saved every dime we brought in over 4 months would we have $20,000?  Nope.

So when simply slashing the budget and saving isn’t enough it’s time to consider earning more money.

Selling excess things around the house is a good place to start for fast cash.  It’s not a permanent solution, because when the stuff is gone, the income stream is gone too.  We have an upright freezer we could part with. An air hockey table (that the kids love); our piano, my guitar, a clarinet, some tiny violins, our furniture, and our wedding rings.  The reality is these are items we use, every day.  We would feel the loss.  In the scheme of things they are just things and I could let them go.  But if I can earn money another way…that would be best.

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I could expand my businesses already in place to earn more online. It’s scary for me, this earning money online thing.  To do that, I have to put myself out there, make offers, experience rejection, read mean emails from hurting people who forget I’m a real person and it freaks me out.  I’m terrible with handling criticism.

But also, it means I get to help people.  I only make money when I meet a need, give encouragement, make a better life possible for someone else.  And while doing that I get to help my family at the same time.  It amazes me how business works!

Of course I don’t have to work online to make extra money.  I could  teach classes; sell crafts; teach classes on how to do crafts :); do yard work; get a part time job; take on custom sewing.  I’ve done them all, but in this precarious situation of ours, I have to be choosy.  I have 6 children, I teach school part time and run 3 other businesses from our home.  It’s my primary job to keep the family running smoothly, so I have to consider the time it takes me to earn money and choose the most income for the least amount of time.  If I say yes to an opportunity to spend a lot of time for a little return, then I give up the chance to use my time to make the kind of money we need.

To do that well, I have to stay away from income streams that earn an hourly wage (like custom sewing or making crafts). And instead choose sources of open ended income where I do the work once and get paid for it multiple times (like video courses, drafting sewing patterns or writing ebooks).  This type of income earning is less guaranteed.  What if I spend all this time making a digital product and no one buys it?  It’s still scary.  But it’s my best shot.

There’s no perfect solution, just the best one for our current circumstances.  And we don’t have to walk the path alone.  And when I reflect on what has happened over the last few weeks, I’m thankful for God and his providence.  He doesn’t make bad things happen, but allows us to walk through them to refine us and help us grow in faith.

200 Ways to save $100

Friday morning, 5 hours before super hero training camp and moments after I frantically finished up my menus for delivery…The doorbell rang.

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At that moment I had glass cleaner in one hand and a rag in the other.  I needed a shower. But I was pretending to be the lovely lady above. The man at the door said, “Don’t you usually clean AFTER the remodel is finished?”

I said, “Are you our Engineer?”

He said, “Yes, I tried to cal…..”

But I could’t hear the rest.  I was leaping and yelling, “Yipee the engineer is here!” With the door standing open and the man looking confused. If he had a thought bubble it would read, “Do I go in? Do I stay out here?  What is that woman on?”

We had been waiting 2 weeks for this day.  The day to find out what is really wrong with our house, how soon can we fix it, and gulp, what it will cost.  This moment stood between me and having a kitchen again and I was ready to face it head on.

He spent several hours at the house with a fancy laser level and clipboard.  Thoroughly listened to our concerns and even checked out the leak in the attic. The diagnoses?  Our east wall has dropped 4 inches and requires 15 piers and jacking to repair, plus landscaping, gutters and annual watering to prevent further damage.  The good news:  It can be fixed immediately.  And as soon as it’s fixed we can continue with our kitchen remodel. The bad news: We should expect to pay at least $20,000.  And when we pay that….there won’t be money to finish the kitchen. (The leak in the attic only needed a little caulk around the sky light.)

Now is not the time to panic.  It’s time to think and plan.  All I have to do is find 200 ways to save $100 or 100 ways to save $200 and boom.  Problem solved. And he said we could wait until July (the next dry season) to get the work done, without worrying about further damage.  If I’m willing to delay the kitchen that long.

So I’ve started a list.  And am giving myself 4 months to find the savings.

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#1 We’re not sending Christmas cards this year.  So Merry Christmas–we love you. Savings:  $75

#2  Let my hair go officially ombre and then brown with silver streaks. Savings $75 every 6 weeks or $200 over 4 months. (In theory, I really only went every 6 months….) I need to go right now, but can use the money to buy Heidi a hair straightener for her Christmas gift instead.

#3 Potty Train Grant (yep he’s 2 1/2, but I just haven’t felt like I could add that to my plate.  Adding it now…) Savings:  $25 a month or $100 over 4 months.

#4 My sister-in-law and I agreed to cancel our gift exchange this year.  We wouldn’t be together on Christmas Day anyway and the cousins will simply celebrate this year with the annual gingerbread house building and a fabulous playtime at Grandmas.  This one was hardest on my Mom, but my kids took it really well. Savings:  $100

#5 I crossed 5 budgeted gifts off our Coffman list by planning to sew the items from stash materials and they are going to be the BEST ever! Savings:  $100

#6 Instead of going to Chucky Cheese tonight for Caleb’s birthday the family agreed to go to Striker’s $1 night bowling.  For which we had a $25 gift card for admission and each child had a $2 gift card for the arcade.  (The arcade was surprisingly expensive with games costing between $.75 and $3.  Our $2 cards weren’t going to go very far.  But an older man came up to me and asked if I was the mother of all these—motioning around with his hand.  I said I was, and he handed me a gift card. After he left, I swiped it on the machine to check the balance and it had $52 on it!!!  I cried, literally.  It was like God looked down from heaven and said, “I see you.”

Official Savings $50 (We ended up buying pizza for $25.  I goofed and thought they had $1 hot dogs there, but that was the other bowling alley.)

#7 Exclusively go back to cloth wipes instead of toilet paper (I have been buying more paper since we moved but time to buckle down.) This will save $20 every other month. Or $4o over 4 months. Or $120 for the year

#8 Drop my grocery budget by $100 which will pull us back to the $400 per month ($50 per person) budget.  Pinch!  This will be hard as I’ve gotten used to my extra $100….but doable.  Official Savings:  $400.

#9 Adjust the clothing budget.  I’ve worked hard to get Darren to raise it up to around $100 a month for all 8 of us.  If I can do without for 4 months, that would save us $400.  Several of the boys need shoes.  But I can make up their other needs in creative ways.

So That’s where I am.  That saved us $1,005.  Only $18,995 to go.  Do you have any more ideas for me?

(We will be ok and my sister and 3 friends already brought over casseroles.)

 

 

A few carpet squares

While waiting for the experts to tell us how to save our house, we decided to take some temporary measures to make it more livable.

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My friend, Pam, was over exercising and asked if we had thought about buying some cheap carpet squares.  “Um, you mean like these?”  I motioned to a dark corner where we had a large stack of them.  We bought them to finish our basement with, but set that project aside for bigger things.  I had never thought about using them upstairs until Pam said something.

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So the children carried them upstairs for me and laid them down in a basket weave pattern.  The floor is now clean and soft underfoot.  Yes, it’s too dark and shows every speck of dirt.  And the squares shift around since they aren’t glued down. We didn’t cut anything, just overlapped squares when they didn’t fit quite right.  But with no money out of pocket it’s starting to feel a little more like home.

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We had stacks of flooring all over the house and Heidi helped me move them to one central location then cover with a cloth to use as an island.  (I have since traded out the green cloth for a flannel backed vinyl cloth with fall leaves on it.  I wanted a moisture barrier to protect the hardwood flooring in the boxes.) We moved some of our cooking things down here too.  The ceiling was so low in the attic and there wasn’t enough space to sit as a family that I finally said, enough.  There isn’t much storage down here, so I’ve only brought down the bare minimum in cooking items. And will continue to store stuff up there.  BUT we are so much closer to where the food is kept that life is much better.  During this whole process the thing I miss most is a table where we can all eat together.
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I also hung 4 clipboards on the wall so I could display some of the brilliant art work the children do at school.  There are 4 more clipboards for the other side that I will hang eventually.  The hardest part about hanging them is getting everything lined up just so.  I bought these at amazon, because I really wanted this style of clip, but they have the smaller clip styles at Dollar Tree which work really well too.  I was thinking about trying to stain these clipboards a darker color, but they seem to have a slick finish on them.  I’m not sure stain would penetrate very well.DSC_1707

I love these two pieces of art.  Dub was embarrassed about the upper piece because it was supposed to say, “Hello, Fall.”  But I love it just the way it is and told him so.  We now have a real leaf in the upper clipboard and a second painting by Dub in the lower right. Brandon made the tissue paper piece in his kindergarten art class.  “Why do you think it looks like fall?”  He wanted to know.  It just does.

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I bought the felt leaf shapes from Dollar Tree and stitched them to squares cut from canvas drop cloths to make these pillows.  The idea came from Tatertots and Jello.

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The children went to the pumpkin patch with Aunt Erica and each brought home a pumpkin, so we have scattered them about too.  I love real pumpkins. I’d love to change out the flowers in the vase for each season.  Maybe pinterest has some inspiration for me for things I can gather from the yard?

 

A Little Dirt Work

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Last week my Father-in-Law brought down his skid-loader since we couldn’t find one in town to rent.  It was a blessing he was here, because DH hurt his back the same day and we needed a lot of help.  My mother-in-law came too and ended up staying with us several days which was a blessing.

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Here’s the front of our house from April 2012.  That was before new front doors and the tree trimming. Most of the yard was ground cover ivy instead of grass.

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The side yard by the driveway was full of misc. trees and bushes that always looked scraggly to me.  I’d been begging Darren to let me cut them down since we bought the house.

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They are gone now! Don’t worry, we still have a lot of beautiful trees left, but everything looks a lot cleaner.

I was thrilled to say goodbye to a yard full of weeds, and hello to beautiful dirt angled to keep water from seeping under the foundation.  We took several bids on gutters but don’t think we’ve found the right company yet.  The house is 4 stories tall in the back and we need something that doesn’t have to be cleaned out every week back there.

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It took most of the week to get the dirt work done.  Then Cloyce tilled the entire yard 3 times to smooth everything out and prepare it for grass seed.  You can see him on the right with his garden tiller.  Oh man, this was a serious amount of work. Darren was in no position to help–he was laid so flat I was dressing him and feeding him too…I’m thankful he’s starting to get better.

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While Cloyce worked out front, Bonnie (my mother-in-law) planted Hostas fro me in our jungle bed out back.  She pulled out a lot more of the invasive ground cover, which I was so thankful for.  I got my hands dirty a little bit too, but my job at the school interrupted our most productive work times.DSC_1654

When she wasn’t working here, she was inside helping with dishes and laundry, and reading stories to the cutest 2 year old named Grant.

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We are expecting a second opinion on the foundation this Friday and will know more how to proceed.  It feels like a long time to wait.

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Foundation Update

So Foundation Guy was here.  I was exercising with friends and DH handled the main walk through.  I came in for the verdict.  The look on his face was a cross-between maybe you should sit down and it could be worse.

We bought the house from the original owners, who designed and built the house. They lived a good portion of time in Europe, and found the maintenance on the home from across the seas to be daunting.  Especially cleaning leaves out of the gutters.  Soooooo, they took the gutters down when the house was a year old. That was 41 years ago.

The lack of gutters forced water to fall off the house next to the foundation and erode the soil away.  This allowed water to seep UNDER the foundation and heave up the center of the house.  There is a heaved up crack in the basement floor and the house is 2+” higher in the center then at the edges.  The drywall in the attic is cracking and buckling.

Foundation Guy suggested we relandscape the front yard, do some mud-jacking of washed out areas under the front porch, put on gutters and wait for the house to settle back down before proceeding with the kitchen.

“You’re kidding right?  You totally had me going there. Your face looked soooo serious…..you’re not kidding?  You ARE serious? Catch me….I’m going down.”

How much is that going to cost?  How long will that take? We are making phone calls….but so far JUST the mud-jacking is $800.  And a structural engineer for a second opinion?  $400 and a wait time of two weeks.  Then we can rent a skid-steer because DH has Skills. Expecting $200 a day for that which is way less than hiring a landscape company.  But we are on a waiting list to get one–looks like lots of folks have the same idea. Foundation Guy thought we had enough dirt in the high spots of our yard that we wouldn’t need to buy more–good news.  And then the gutters….not sure on that but expecting 4 figures.

And once we get that done, how long before the house settles?  No one can tell us. Darren has already called his mother and suggested she start thinking about plan B for Christmas since we won’t have a house to host it in.

Breathe…..slowly.  It’s not cancer.  We are still in love.  Our children are safe and healthy.  We have food and an emergency fund and maybe when the furlough is over DH will still have a job.  The dry erase marker came out of my new sofa this morning with a shot of hand sanitizer and Grant is really sorry and will never do it again.  My washer and dryer are still functioning as are our 17 year old cars. There’s so much to be thankful for.  Thankfulness takes the sting away.

I still need chocolate.  Good thing I bought the Halloween candy early….or maybe not.

 

Before and During Photos

Tuesday, I’ll tell you what Foundation Guy said.  Until then, let’s try to forget about it and enjoy some photos.

Laundry Room Before

Before the laundry room was just six feet wide and 18 feet long!  It was painted a mustard orange color with matching linoleum and lined on both sides with cabinets.  The cabinets even partly covered the tiny window at the end.  The cabinet doors were too narrow to fit most items in, so the room was in constant chaos.Laundry Room

We started by removing one set of cabinets which opened things up quite a bit.  But it still felt pretty cramped.

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So we widened the room 2 feet, painted it a lighter color, removed the popcorn ceiling, and moved the doorway to the other end.  This left the opposite end able to receive shelves all the way around for a pantry and prep kitchen.

Dining room before and after

The dining room started with the same linoleum as the laundry room and was painted in two other dark shades pulled from the floor. It has one very small window that was covered with heavy lined drapes the exact print of the linoleum. We  repainted the room, added light filtering curtains, replaced the chair rail, and added crown molding.  Then I temporarily covered the linoleum with a paper bag floor.

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View from another angle.  The door to the right leads into the old laundry room.  I rarely closed it since we do laundry so often and I didn’t like hiking down the long skinny room to get to the machines.

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Here we dropped the old laundry room wall, in preparation to widen the laundry and create room for a pantry.  Before removing any walls we consulted with a structural engineer and the original blue prints.  None of the walls we changed were support walls.

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The new wall framed in. An arched doorway was high on my wish list to add character to the architecture.  And it echoes the arch of the brick fireplace.

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Pulling back to the view from our bedroom doorway.  Notice the 6 foot wall separating the old kitchen from our family room.  Our family room was completely sealed inside the house with rooms all the way around and received no natural light of it’s own.  (The mustard yellow paint color didn’t help much.)  Here Caleb is carrying books to our library downstairs so we can tear the wall down.
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Ripping stuff out is VERY satisfying. And the fastest part of the job.

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The wall is gone allowing a lot more light to come into the family room.  The popcorn ceilings are now smooth and the drywall is ready for painting.

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View of the old kitchen from the back of the fireplace.  It was very chopped up with the stove next to the dining room. My back was to the oven as I took this picture–the two appliances weren’t anywhere near each other.  The dishwasher was across from the refrigerator and there was not enough room to walk through to the dining room with the dishwasher open.  Also the refrigerator could not open with the dishwasher open.  This was very frustrating when it was time to clear the table, load the dishes and put the food away after a meal.  Also notice the pantry door straight ahead on the right?  It is not near ANY of the prep areas.  There were a lot of waisted steps designed into this kitchen.DSC_0594

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Pantry drywall is down.  Woo hoo! Progress!

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Goodbye pantry.  Goodbye linoleum.

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Ready for paint. The light from the few windows we have can flow through the house much better now.

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Another angle shows a half wall with 2 windows in it.  The previous owners hung fake vinyl stain glass pieces in the openings.  The goal was to block the view of the messy kitchen from the formal living room.  But it also managed to keep light from traveling through the space.

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View from the formal living room.

Current view from the living room

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I couldn’t wait to get my hands on this one!

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Grrr, take that!

After, no more shadows from the wall.  Let the sunshine in (tomorrow.)

That thing sticking up out of our floor was our old central vacuum.  The suction was great, but the attachments didn’t work anymore.

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View from the other direction.  I’m standing with my back against the dining room wall that boarders the laundry room.

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So this is where our project is today.  When we get it done, it’s going to be amazing.  But that could be awhile yet.  I’ll tell you why tomorrow.

Come on Floors!

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Wide open space!  All subfloor–no more mismatch.  No more 1971 linoleum with cuts and dirt ground in deep.  This is the view from the door to my bedroom.

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Next stop hardwood floors.  We cut the old floor into squares–it was a floating floor, but they glued each tongue together so we couldn’t reuse it.  I was REALLY bummed about that.  My mom came over and carried it out while I was teaching school.

Then DH started laying out the new floor to see how things would go.  The floors are really not level, and our choices to level them up include taking up the subfloor and planing down the high joists.  Or taking up the subfloor and shimming up the low areas.  Or pouring in a silicone leveler that can be nailed through (except some of the low areas are 2 inches low which is too much for the leveler.) And then it hit us, “Why is the floor this bad?”  “Why is the wall in the attic cracking? Was it cracked that much last year when we moved in?”

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So we placed a call to a structural expert who will be here at 9 am tomorrow.  It feels like everything is on hold and we are afraid to breathe.  We had foundation problems at our previous house and they are costly to repair.  Here’s to hoping it’s not too bad.  It’s frustrating to DH because he is furloughed and has time to work on the project, but can’t move forward until the experts give their ok.

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Tomorrow, I’ll show some before and current pictures of our progress.  Even though we aren’t close to done, it’s amazing how far we’ve come.

P.S.  DH is a federal agent of sorts and his most recent background check came up with this blog.  They sweetly asked if I would stop using his name in my posts…So trying to remember to use DH instead of the real thing, even though I’ve never been a secretive sort of person.  And not mad at all, just extremely flattered that they considered this tiny blog important enough to make the request.

P.P.S. A weight loss scam stole my weight loss pictures and used them on facebook to try to sell their junk.  I’m half mad; half flattered that they thought my transformation was good enough to steal.  But I still made a stink and asked them to take it down, as did my trainer, the amazing Holly Rigsby (button the right.)

 

 

 

A little paint….

Random Excerpt: Happy Birthday to the best mother a girl could have! Mine.  Hope Dad takes you shopping and lets you look at whatever you want to for as long as you want to and not just computers and electronic stuff.

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Ok, A lot of paint.  The size of this space is huge about 60 feet by 18 feet.  So we took advantage of an Angie’s list special and hired 2 painters for a day.  That was a very good decision.

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They left us this cool bucket, with paint screen and a roller.  I had never seen one before and it totally eliminates the need for a roller pan and multiple refills.

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DH and I still painted about 8 hours on Saturday together, after we ran our first 5k as a couple, in the rain, in the wee hours of the morning.  Yes we are totally drenched in this picture.  At least he had the good sense to wear a hat. He got a medal too, but wasn’t as excited about it as I was.  Um, his first time was less than 28 minutes….I arrived across the finish line 3 minutes later. He mostly has a desk job–I work out a lot.  And even though I wasn’t any where near a fast time, I cried when they put the medal on my neck.  It was after all to help save unborn babies and their mothers.

You can get a good sense of the color in the photo above.  It’s Behr Silver Drop–which is a very light,very neutral greige.  I’d call it a warm gray or a cool beige.  I’ve used really wall colors in my house before and get tired of them really quickly.  I’m a neutral kind of girl and I really love white.  And then pops of color from rugs or curtains, pillows and such–or just really clean and almost bare.

Ok, here’s a confession that I can say here, because this isn’t a decorating blog.  I kind of like builder’s grade–and everywhere beige or gray.  Ever since I was a little girl, seeing a new house with builder grade everything was like the height of luxury.  Our house was built in the 30’s with original doors and knobs and everything that is cool right now, but back then it was 40 years old–the same as 70’s stuff is today.  We had pleasant dreams at night of builder’s grade.  We had no idea how charming everything could be if we just restored the house to it’s original glory.  Now when I read decorating blogs (and I’m subscribed to about 20 of them) they commonly bashing builder’s grade and working to eradicate it all from their home.  Their transformations are amazing, but I’d be happy with the before and not even realize a transformation was needed.

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I love how the kids like to be close to us.  They brought a tiny lap top in to watch a movie where Darren was working even though we have rooms with furniture somewhere in the house :).  Hmmm, I wonder where Dub was?  Oh and paint the fireplace or no?  I go back and forth every day on what to do.  Everyone in my house says NO.  But I love a nice white painted fireplace. And a mantle.  Think I could stick a mantle above the arch?  Would that look wonky?